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i would def not call this stupid! the way the celebs get hounded by paps and asked the most ridiculous questions would put anyone off! you can see with jen and
miley and others they keep their heads down, they have no idea where they are goin id say lol they just wanna escape as quick as they can
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Posts: 5433 01/13/10 6:14 PM ''You are who you are |
I don't think that's clearly a problem of paparazzis.Every celebrity knows the pressure and what they are going to pass through so want it or not they
have to keep it cool.I don't say that when sometimes they do stupid things and get critized never happens but as long as you're a celebrity this is
something u have to do right....u chose this job and u know that paps. are allways gonna be hunting you.If someone can't really handle this...then better
stay home....When Jen did it i laughed my ass off cause it was kinda ridiculous to me when Miley did it i had the same reaction even Jen's situation was
worst lol :P....and btw i never want paps. to follow celebrities cause it's really annoying...but what they can really do for it???
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Posts: 138 01/13/10 6:15 PM I'm well known here |
i lurk around this forum alot, but i never hardly post....as i am worried i will say something wrong that will start arguments between people...this is the
kind of atmosphere that this forum has started to side to....i would never say anything bad against Jen as i am a huge fan of hers....BUT i am also a huge fan
of Mariah Carey and some of the things i read on here that people write about her disgusts me deeply!! some of the people here have fowl expressions.
I understand if people dislike an artist or doest agree with things they do or how they dress etc... but there is a way in which you can express this so that it does not come across in such a hateful manor, a way that starts arguments.... a healthy debate is perfectly normal but the insults are really not!!! People need to understand that people feel about other artists the way they feel about Jen...put yourself in their shoes and tell me what you would think about it? (if it was Jen they were insulting) you really wouldnt like it!! you can not insult celebs with words like "shes soo stupid, etc.." for doing something so...ummm...so unimportant and just a funny mistake it really makes people look shallow, especialy when u call 1 celeb stupid for doing it then when Jen does it ...its ok and goofy (thats makes you look a tad contradictory) another thing i think is absoloutly absurd is how people will actually have the audacity to call somebodys baby ugly when its the baby of a celeb they don't like.....that really is low...it's a baby!! how crule!! and i think the point ( Demos14 ) was making is valid and ( CosTaSsSs ) really didnt understand the point and was very quick to get into an argument for no apparent reason...( CosTaSsSs ) you reallly did contradict yourself and the argument you came back with really had no substance as all you did was show ( Demos14 ) how right they were and how valid his/her point was and ypu showed yourself as a very hatefull spitful human being.... i have noticed here though that nobody is really entitled to their own oppinion...people can not just say thier oppinion and it be respected or maybe challenged in a more friendly way and then forgotton (as its their oppinion, doesnt mean you have to like it or agree with it)....it usually turns into an argument (which is not fun) Anyhow, i think i have aired my oppinions and got my views across in a tacktful manor without hurting anybodys feeling (so i will not appreciate any argumentative responses, thank you) although i would like to see other people views on my statements. i just wonder how many other Jennifer Lopez fans are lurking around unable to voice their views and admiration for Jen due to being uncertain if they will be jumped on by certain forum members... have a good day people and remember this is supposed to be a fun place to come, to enjoy the work the artists do and to pass time....this should not take over your lives....if you take 1 thing from being a Jen fan....be it her ambition for success in life...and we as people will not achieve this by sitting on a computer for endless hours hating on artists. do you think Jen would sit at a computer all day fighting with ppl over what they say about an artist she admires? hmmmm i doubt it. its 1 thing to b a huge supportive fan and its another thing to let it take over you life and become obsessed... anywayz im off now goodbye and stay peaceful lol |
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Posts: 5435 01/13/10 6:20 PM ''You are who you are |
Changed the title....now everything is great......rightttt??? lol
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Posts: 139 01/13/10 6:29 PM I'm well known here |
I wasnt personally having a dig at you ( CosTaSsSs ) and i apologise if it seemed that way, i was just expressing that, this is how you made yourself look (i
couldnt possibly comment on you in a factually way as i do not know you personally) i was kind of using your situation (argument) as an example....sorry. it
was just fresh in my mind thats why i spoke about it.
and i am sorry to all forum members for totally taking this off topic lol i am not on a hate crusade to make people feel silly ....i was just trying to send out a little reminder to be nice to people (you dont have to lick their A$$ but you know what i mean) and maybe give some feedback as to how i see this forum (and maybe that other lurkers might have felt the same)
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Posts: 5436 01/13/10 6:40 PM ''You are who you are |
KellyW123 wrote: No it's okay i don't think you have to apologise for anything i respect opinions i just don't want people to tell me what i can love or what i must hate or how much i must love and how much i can hate it's totally disrespectfull for me...it's like you don't respect someone's else opinion that's why i kept the arguement continued....i think you understand what i mean....i want people to free talking about anything and as long is a Jlo forum we are Jlo fans....and we allways support Jennifer and never call her stupid....btw when i said Miley stupid to be honest i didn't mean it in a bad way at all....in Greece we can call someone stupid in a cute way...it's a meaning like Goofy. |
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Posts: 37996 01/14/10 10:04 AM CEO of |
KellyW123 wrote:Thanks for posting! That was very insightful! It's always hard, as an admin to sort of figure out what is the best way to sort of handle
something like this, so it's always nice to hear feedback and/or suggestions.
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I agree with what you said KellyW123. I think that if you have something negative to say, you should at least try to say why you think that it's bad. And
not just say "fail" or something similar, just because you don't like the artist.
Especially the last few months it has gotten out of hands, with comments like FAIL, FLOP, blabla. With Louboutins it's kinda obvious now that the song isn't doing good at all, but sometimes it really annoys me what some people say when the song first leaks. For example when FOTO first leaked there was more hate on the first 8 pages than love(?)  on a fanforum! and that
doesn't matter, but atleast try to say it in a respectful way.
And about this part of the forum, sometimes I read things here which make me think: "you know they say that about Jennifer too right? you know this can be used against you, lol". And then people are surprised if someone actually uses that argument, hahaha. Though, I think some of the times language is a problem too. Some of the times people just want to disprove what people are saying and aren't able to put in in the exact words of how they want to say it, which makes it seem like an attack while it's not meant like that. 
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Posts: 5443 01/14/10 1:24 PM ''You are who you are |
Celebrities allways have fans and haters...it's not something new...i have read harsh harsh harsh comments for Jen....and i thought logically and i
said...they have their opinions if they don't like her i have to respect it even if i totally hate it....i agree with the respectfull way Stephan
said....but guys imo i tried a lot of times....and again the people told me ''and why do u say that???how do u know this??and blah blah
blah''and it's not like i will attack someone else here who i don't know cuz he told his opinion about anything...i respect everything...but if
this is what makes most or all of you annoyed i can stop it
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Posts: 38023 01/14/10 8:46 PM CEO of |
I don't think you cause problems, really. I think it's more of a general statement.
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Posts: 2081 01/14/10 9:15 PM Our Diva is back!!!
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me too...I don't have anything to say against u costas
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Posts: 5450 01/14/10 10:09 PM ''You are who you are |
JenRox wrote: Aww thanks Heather and Ray!! 
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Posts: 27879 01/15/10 2:45 AM |
I understand not liking celebrities and being annoyed with some but full on hating is a waste of time, I think. Like I dislike Paris Hilton and I'll make
my snarky comments of course but others (not naming names) say really hardcore shit like "please die!" and whatnot. Now substitute Paris for Beyonce
and the picture gets clearer.
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I think Kelly and demos are totally on-point. The constant hating is so annoying. Nobody says you have to love Gaga and Beyonce and everyone else, but it's just so tragic to constantly jump all over them. Who cares if their video is bad or they wore a weird outfit or wore the same pair of jeans as each other? I just feel like that much negativity and the amount of pride some members seem to get from trashing everyone has got to be unhealthy for everyone around here. And yes, I think it does look bad on you to say it's hilarious and funny when Jen mistakes her car, but stupid and dumb for Miley Cyrus to do the same. |
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Posts: 5489 01/16/10 6:58 PM ''You are who you are |
superflygirl wrote:I laughed hard with Jen too....and Jen was worse....and as i said before in Greece we can call someone stupid and not allways in a bad way it's like meaning goofy...and i feel like some people are saying to me that i must say ''ok u said for Miley she is stupid,then why don't say this to Jen??''would you call guys Jen stupid??all of us when Jen fall we said she did great it's ok and stuff when the whole world is laughing...and when it comes to other people who fall we laugh hard and say stupid and stuff...btw i'm the one who also did this with the fall i didn't laugh or anything and said these things i said before...but i'm a fan and i think no matter what i would call Jen stupid even if she would do the worst and goofiest thing in her whole life just because i respect her... |
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Posts: 2671 01/16/10 7:31 PM
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IMO This is a Jen Forum no matter what! And if some new members can say really negative things about Jen.Like it's the end for her and she should retire
from music and just do movies, and her songs are dead and they suck, she should make Lady gaga's kind of music. And OH don't you wish your favorites
were doing as good. Then I think it's fine for Jen fans to express themselves as well! Some Beyonce and Gaga fans post some things to be spiteful or to rub
it in our faces, and they mention Jen every time in comparison!There are a bunch of threads on Jens forum that have nothing but negativity.I feel that if you
are a fan of some one other then Jen and don't like what you read, then maybe you should go to that artist's fan forum where everybody adores them.
Just my opinion!
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I wonder if Ruru has seen this thread....oops not naming names!!! Slaps mouth....°.°
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Posts: 315 01/17/10 1:21 AM You have the power
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what the heck was she wearing!?
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Posts: 38082 01/17/10 12:34 PM CEO of |
Taina Mia wrote:That's what we want to change! And, certainly, people do say things to stir the pot, but feeding into those comments only makes it worse. It doesn't make sense to allow so much hating over here and then try and stop it over there. It gets confusing as to where the lines should be drawn. I think overall, it will be a much better experience if everyone respects each other, as well as other artists. That doesn't mean you can't say snarky things about other artists, it's just the downright hating, I guess. We're just trying to figure out the best thing for BB. |
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