ok, here i am, well turns out our feelings are mutual, been goin for drinks after work and such and also been spending lots and lots of time with each other. Thing is i need to get away from my fella...but that makes things even more complicated, i feel like i'm havin a sordid affair and he feels like he's involved with a married woman and stuff lol it's quite deep now and very comfy. Time seems to be the factor and so does money cos i just can't up sticks and go!!!