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Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 20439 06/16/08 4:25 PM Beyond Bitchy. BB Night Patrol	Tags : None Holla!!! Anyway, I was curious to know what you guys think about your chances of having children in the future? I know some of us are too young to really think about this but do you think you'll have an easy chance of having children? In what way do you think you'll have children? (Adoption, naturally, surrogate) I've been thinking about this recently and I'd like to have my own children, but not sure if that will ever be possible since the idea of being with a girl is not something I'd like to pursue. I dunno, maybe I'd try it (with the girl knowing that was my intention of course! lol ) but if not, then maybe adoption would be an option? Holla back at me dawgs!
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#1	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1159 06/16/08 4:35 PM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	I want kids with a girl I am attracted to, love her personality, personalbly a Puerto Rican girl, I am bisexual so I would try dating girls again... but at the moment I am with a dude, so i dunno how long this will last but I would def want a Puerto Rican girl, a good puerto rican chick, or have a relationship wit her, it depends what happens. I can picture myself wit a female and changing my "homosexual" ways to live a "straight life", but again its a hard answer.. I could be wit a chick, but still be attracted to nigguhsz; I dont want to adopt fuck that, I want my OWN kids, with MY EYES, EARS, MY HAIR, MY EYE COLOR, MY PERSONALITY, so when I see my kid, I see me and his/her momma. So to Adoption: HELL NO. To my Own Kids: YES.
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timmyd2121		#2	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 20444 06/16/08 4:51 PM Beyond Bitchy. BB Night Patrol	BTW, straight people can also give their opinions...
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Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 540 06/16/08 6:42 PM Fashion Fades. Style is Eternal.	^ Okay, i'm not a guy either but whatever, lol. I'm only 20 and i'm not thinking about kids AT ALL right now and i don't think i want kids. I like working with other people's kids, but sometimes the best part about them is giving them back to their parents at the end of the day, lol. But, if i ever decide that i want kids i think adoption would be something that i would pursue. I know people want their 'own' kids, but if you choose a child/ they choose you, then you could still see your personality reflected in them, ya know. I guess it's the nature/ nurture debate in that case. There are so many kids in foster care that i could not not consider that.
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superflygirl		#4	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 25236 06/16/08 11:46 PM BB Librarian 2008. Beyond Bitchy. BB & OJF - you heard it here first.	In all honesty, I don't think I would completely rule out ever being a surrogate for someone. A lot of my friends are gay, and if they ever asked, I would put some serious thought into it. Provided my life allowed for it as well.
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brinstar1		#5	[url]	[-]
Posts: 231 06/17/08 2:44 AM You thought of that?	lol, well im straight, so dont think i should be here -.- But anywayz, i plan to have my own children because its just the way i personally would like it, dont plan to adopt cause simply it aint my child! Im an ordinary guy that just wants kids sometime in the future thats it....
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kateflo		#6	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 581 06/17/08 3:53 AM	I'm straight, but i'm totally agree with timmy - everybody need a kid =) no matter what it will be - surrogate or adoption... i mean i think it's great when two people (no matter who are they) have a kid and they really love him...
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mEm		#7	[url]	[-]
Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 5820 06/17/08 6:53 AM I'm bigger than my fears! ......I am BRAVE!	I'm straight,just wanted to share my opinion... i mean i think it's great when two people (no matter who are they) have a kid and they really love him... I don't like the idea of gay men&lesbian women adopting a child. Its just not right for me. A child needs a mother and a father. Not 2 fathers or 2 mothers.Its child's right to have a healty family life with mother-father. If the child is raised by mother&father (heterosexual parents),that child has best chance to develop his/her sexual and emotional identity... Don't get me wrong,i'm not homophobic... i only think that gay adoption is harmful for children,and children should be brought up by a mother and a father.
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timmyd2121		#8	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 20454 06/17/08 7:00 AM Beyond Bitchy. BB Night Patrol	I'm sure there are a lot kids who have been raised by homosexual parents and have gone on to live normal lives. I honestly don't think it matters. What do you say to those being raised by single parents and grow up normal?
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mEm		#9	[url]	[-]
Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 5826 06/17/08 7:33 AM I'm bigger than my fears! ......I am BRAVE!	I'm sure there are a lot kids who have been raised by homosexual parents and have gone on to live normal lives. you're right,there are some kids like that,but generally children of homosexuals will be more confused about their gender... Everyone can live their life,and they have right to do what they want in their private lives,but when you adopt a a children,its not your private life anymore. Its the life of the child,and that child has no choice. I think homosexual couples need to think what is best for the children,not whats best for them.
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kateflo		#10	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 584 06/17/08 8:08 AM	i think it's absolutely normal when 2 fathers or 2 mothers take care of their adopter child.. cuz when the child will grow up he'll understand and make his own choose in life (and sex )
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superflygirl		#11	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 25257 06/17/08 11:46 AM BB Librarian 2008. Beyond Bitchy. BB & OJF - you heard it here first.	In my opinion, anyone who can provide love and support for a child is worthy of being a parent whether they are gay or straight. I think most of the gay guys on this board will say they were always gay - that it wasn't a "choice" the way you'd choose to be vegetarian or something. So, being raised by a gay couple doesn't mean you will be gay or confused about your sexuality. How else can you explain gay kids who come from straight families? There are plenty of children who come from "normal" families who grow up to be rapists, addicts, and a million other bad things. It's clear, to me at least, that the nuclear family model isn't the only way to raise kids. What about being raised by grandparents, godparents, being adopted, or even being shuffled from foster home to foster home for your entire adolescence? And there are plenty of straight people who should not be allowed to have children anyway.
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jamesuk2		#12	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1435 06/17/08 4:02 PM 'One of the great joys in life is doing things people say you cannot do' Jenny & Benny Forever Jen's Ghost Manager	^ I agree with everything Jess says. I researched Don Roos (the director of L&OIP) life and he adopted a girl with his partner at 50. http://www.nytimes.com/2005/05/08/movies/moviesspecial/08carr.html?pagewanted=print&position= So it goes to show you can do it and even then you can be older.
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superflygirl		#13	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 25275 06/17/08 9:40 PM BB Librarian 2008. Beyond Bitchy. BB & OJF - you heard it here first.	A guy I know is adopting with his partner right now...they're still in the process.
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mEm		#14	[url]	[-]
Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 5849 06/18/08 3:08 AM I'm bigger than my fears! ......I am BRAVE!	superflygirl wrote: I think most of the gay guys on this board will say they were always gay - that it wasn't a "choice" the way you'd choose to be vegetarian or something. So, being raised by a gay couple doesn't mean you will be gay or confused about your sexuality. How else can you explain gay kids who come from straight families? There are plenty of children who come from "normal" families who grow up to be rapists, addicts, and a million other bad things. It's clear, to me at least, that the nuclear family model isn't the only way to raise kids. Of course there are some kids who are gay and they come from straight families, but they're just minority... Don't forget that gay population is 10 percent of the world's population... Children raised by homosexual parents are MORE LIKELY to be homosexual. ANYWAYS,its not all about 'sexuality'... children needs a male and female role model in family.
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timmyd2121		#15	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 20462 06/18/08 6:31 AM Beyond Bitchy. BB Night Patrol	Where are you getting these stats mem?
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mEm		#16	[url]	[-]
Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 5853 06/18/08 6:44 AM I'm bigger than my fears! ......I am BRAVE!	^ i had a debate about 'adopting' last month ,and 'adopting' was my research paper last semester lol.
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Master of Jen-ology Posts: 1913 06/18/08 8:03 AM Be yourself,everyone else is already taken	im bisexual and i think that theres nothin wrong with adopting babies though i know i can get prego myself but sometimes i think im more of a lesbian and ive been with chicas more than chicos so i think to myself that im sure i wouldnt last with a guy but i know i would last with a girl so i think maybe i adopt ? but once i was inlove with this girl who had a baby since she used to be bisexaul and i thought now thats great that would be like my own kid since i realy love his mom lol ...but im too young for a baby lol im 19 and i dont need any kid untill 10 years later lol
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Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1164 06/18/08 1:23 PM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	I don't think that two same sex parents will have a child turn "homosexual" I find that answer ignorant. There is a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE bunch of "heteorsexual parents" who raised gay children. Like wth, I grew up with my momma, my dad wasn't really in the picture much, does that mean, I turned out "bisexual" because of that? I don't think so. I've been like this all my life, I can remember as early as the age of 5 years old. So for someone to say A same Sex couple to raise a child and the child being confused about their orientation is a bit ignorant. Even tho if its a baby and all they see is a gay mom and a gay mom(dad) maybe the child will be raised to be talented, gifted, artistic, caring, loveable, straight or gay, whatever the outcome may be. Its like saying There is a Parent who uses drugs, gets high, etc will that make their child grow up to be a drug dealer, drug addict? no.
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timmyd2121		#19	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 20467 06/18/08 11:15 PM Beyond Bitchy. BB Night Patrol	^Agree. I don't know, I was basically asking if they see kids in their future...? I see kids in my future but I just don't know how it'll happen.
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Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1117 06/18/08 11:31 PM Taller In More Ways	I was talking about this a while ago with a friend and lol this is just a random thought if a homosexual couple wanted to have a child with both their genetics Say there was two women, than one would just have the other womans brother be a donor (maybe not necessarily just have sex with but ya know) than the child would end up with genetics from both parents in a way. Random, but I'm sure some do this
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